Chapter 3: Top Sexual Positions and How to Do Them
As discussed in the previous chapter, couples should explore a variety of positions to keep the fire between the couple going. Here are the top 10 sexual positions that are guaranteed to satisfy the couples and make them more intimate with each other.
1. The G-Spot Stimulating Sex Position. Women have G-spot hidden about two inches of their vagina’s upper wall. It is a spot that is almost considered a myth because it is very difficult to find. But, once the spot is found and stimulated, it makes the woman experience an extraordinary orgasm that can make them moan like crazy. And as the G–spot is being stimulated, the vagina tends to squeeze the cock harder which pleasures the man.
To start the G-Spot stimulating sex position, the woman lies flat on the bed or on the floor with her legs raised in a 90 degree angle. The man will then position himself in front of the woman’s opening and begin thrusting in and out.
As the pleasure builds up between the couple, the man should slowly raise the woman’s lower body up so that her body will be pointed towards the ceiling. The man should also start kneeling tall as he continues to thrust. The purpose of this step is to find the G-spot. Once the man finds the spot, he should retain the position and start thrusting to stimulate the G-spot until the woman reaches her orgasm.
If the man has not reached his own orgasm when the woman came, he could continue his thrusts until he reaches his own climax. His thrusts will just build up another orgasm to the woman.
Some couple would find this position as a hardcore sex position rather than an intimate sex position. However, many couples ended up expressing (sometimes, even screaming) their love to each other as they enjoy the waves of pleasure derived from this mind-blowing sexual position. Nothing may be more intimate than that.
2. The Lotus Sex Position. Marriage counselors often suggest this position to married couple because it is a very intimate position. It involves a lot of kissing, fondling and body contacts.
In this position, the woman does most of the work.
To start, the man sits with his legs crossed. Each foot touches the opposite knee. The woman then guides her partner’s penis to penetrate her as she sits on his lap. Instead of the man thrusting up, it is the woman who does the rocking.
If the man becomes uncomfortable because of the woman’s weight, he may straighten his legs or spread it to form a diamond shape. The woman, on the other hand, may cling to the man’s neck as she rocks.
In this position, the couple will be in a good position where they can easily kiss each other, explore and feel their body against each other.
This position is sometimes noted as the sitting missionary sex position.
3. Cowgirl Sex Position. In this position, the woman rides her partner like a cowgirl. This means that she is on top of his man and has control over the sexual activity.
This position is highly advised for women who find it difficult to achieve orgasm. According to some researches, 64 percent of women have difficulty achieving orgasm. Some women even fake their orgasms just to satisfy their men. But with this position, women can easily reach their orgasm because they can guide the penetration to the spot that stimulate their orgasm.
To start this position, the man lies on his back on the bed or on any surface the couple prefers. The woman moves down her opening to the man’s erection and start riding her man like a horse. The man may caress the woman’s body to increase their passion. Most men would often fondle the breasts as they move up and down.
Since the woman is in control, she could do the variations while riding her man. She could ride him in a kneeling position, in a squat position or in reverse position. This is the position that shows men how women can have their own fun.
The cowgirl position may be considered as a hardcore sex position rather than an intimate one. Still, giving the control solely to the woman during sex is a very intimate act that a man can do for his lover.
4. Missionary Sex Position. It may be common and seems ordinary, but Missionary Sex Position is still considered as one of the greatest sex positions. It is easy to do. It does not need any flexibility or agility. It guarantees equal satisfaction between the partners.
In this position, the woman lies on her back with her legs spread open. The man positions himself in between the woman’s legs and penetrates her opening. The hard work for this position is done by the man. The responsibility of the woman is to caress his man to ease the pressure on his back and encourage him by romancing him.
This position is great because it may achieve triple spot stimulation. It can simultaneously stimulate the clitoris, the G-Spot and A-Spot of the woman which can blow her mind away.
The man’s pelvis stimulates the clitoris as he thrust inside the woman. If the woman is not satisfied on the pressure she feels on her clit, she could just simply press her pelvis closer to the man’s pelvis to achieve the pressure she wants to achieve.
If the woman wants to have more impact on her A-spot, she just has to raise her leg ups or wrap them around the man’s waist to allow the man to penetrate deeper.
Another reason why this position remains to be a top sex position is that it allows romancing between the couple. Just like in the Lotus position, the couple can kiss and touch each other as they rock.
The missionary sex position also acts as the base position to many other sexual positions, like the G-Spot Sniper sex position and Sandwich Position.
5. Dancing Sex Position. This is a standing sex position. It is often called as the standing missionary position. This position allows the couple to engage in a heated sex in narrow spaces like the shower, dressing booth and elevators.
In this position, control can be shifted between the couple.
To start this position, the man stands facing the woman. He lifts one of the woman’s legs to his waist, just like the basic Tango position, and position himself between the woman’s legs. If he wants to penetrate deeper, he may lift both legs and secure them around his waist. To secure their connection and make it comfortable, the man may push the woman against a wall.
If the man gets tired, the woman can let him rest for a while by switching positions. The man will now rest on the wall and let his partner rock him while she is clinging to his body for support.
The dancing sex position can easily be altered into a countertop position, especially if it is done in the shower.
6. Washing Machine Position. Some couples may not be familiar with this position, but it is slowly gaining fame for being a hardcore yet intimate sexual position.
The washing machine position is actually a variety of sitting position and standing position, but the sex is only done in a running washing machine.
In a washing machine sitting position, the woman sits on top of the washing machine with her leg widely spread upward. She should also split her butt wide so that her anus can touch the top of the washing machine. The man then positions himself and penetrates her opening. As the man thrusts in and out, the vibration of the running washing machine in the woman’s anus spreads to her vagina and also to man’s penis adding more sensations to the activity.
Some couples who tried the sitting washing machine position claimed, however, that it is a bit difficult especially if the crotch of the man do not reach the top of the washing machine.
In the washing machine standing position, the woman lies on her chest on the top of the washing machine. Her lower body should be touching the front of the washing machine. The man then enters the woman from her behind.
Again, the stimulation from the washing machine in the woman’s breasts and pubic portion will add excitement to the couple. The standing position also allows the couple to easily switch to anal sex. During the anal sex, the vibration from the washing machine can continue the stimulation in the clit and the pubic portion of the woman.
7. On-fours sex positions or Doggy-Style sex positions. This position is one of the traditional sexual positions. It allows the couple to find the perfect angle to satisfy them. Also, it allows the couple to easily switch from vaginal penetration to anal penetration or vice versa.
The Doggy style position is considered one of the best sexual positions because it is one of the naughtiest and hottest sexual positions.
According to research, women love doing doggy style because it allows them to be dirty but in a playful way. The women are allowed to masturbate while the man thrusts in and out from their pussy or anus. Some women feel playful especially when the thrusting makes their breasts shake.
There are three top doggy sex positions that most couples prefer. These are the regular doggy style position, the bulldog sex position and the stairway doggy style sex position.
The Regular Doggy Style
In a regular doggy style, the woman gets down on her knees and hands and spreads her legs apart a bit. The man kneels down and enters the woman from behind. For deeper penetration, the woman may move her head and shoulder closer to the bed or the ground. For better pressure or impact, the woman may push back to counter his man’s thrusts.
The Bulldog Style
The Bulldog style is a gentle dominant-slave sexual position. The man takes all the control in this style. All the woman needs to do is to get down on fours and press her legs tightly as the man thrusts in and out from her behind. The tighter she presses her legs, the tighter the man would feel inside her.
This style is rougher than the regular doggy style because the man is expected to grab the woman’s shoulder or hair to steady his stance and to thrust deeper and harder in every angle. This style may be painful for some women, but some may find it pleasurable. For those who feel uncomfortable with the pain, they should immediately tell their partners.
Stairway Doggy Style
The Stairway Doggy Style is one of the naughtiest sexual positions for couples. This sexual position requires to be done in the stairway. The fact that the sexual intercourse is done in the open makes this style exciting and very naughty.
This type of doggy style is just a regular doggy style, but only done in the stairway. And since it is in the stairway, the woman is in an ascending position. This allows the man to thrust deeper and in a comfortable angle. This position is also ideal for anal sex. It will also be easy for the woman to push back for deeper and harder penetration.
The man is also in a comfortable position to fondle the woman or stimulate his clitoris; and if they are doing anal, remember that it is a comfortable position to finger-fuck his woman.
The only setback for this doggy style is that the stairs may be hard and can hurt the elbows and knees of the woman. Experts suggest using pads on the elbow or knees when doing this style. The couple may also do the act in a carpeted stairway.
8. Rear Entry Sex Position. This is a combination of doggy style and missionary style.
In this position, the woman lies on the bed on her stomach. The man then enters from her behind. The man can either thrust in and out without putting pressure on the woman’s back or he can thrust up and down in a full body motion. The woman can help out by pushing her butt up and down to counter the man’s motion.
Some women enjoy having their men press their weight on their back when doing the rear entry sex position. Allowing the man to press his weight will put him in the best position to be intimate with his partner. He can easily romance his lover’s ears, neck and back.
9. 69 Sex position. Though this sex position does not involve penetration, it still remains as one of the top positions for a healthy sexual relationship.
The 69 sex position is a form of oral sex between the couple that is often treated as one of the foreplay during sex.
Foreplay is an important part of having sex. Without any foreplay, the partners will not be aroused enough to continue exploring other sexual positions. The 69 sex positions are considered to be the best and the most intimate foreplay position for couples.
In this position, both parties are stimulated with oral action simultaneously. The man will be performing cunnilingus (licking and sucking on pussy) on the woman. The woman will be giving the man a blow job.
There are many ways a couple can perform the 69 position. The variants include the traditional 69, the side 69 position, and the exotic 69 sex position.
The Traditional 69 Sex Position
In the traditional 69 sex position, the man is on top while the woman is under him. The man needs to arch his body to give a comfortable space for the woman to do her task. He may need to use his elbows or hands to support his body.
Both of them will then level their organs to each other’s face and begin a traditional cunnilingus and blowjob.
The traditional 69 sex position, however limits the performance of the man. The man does not have a free hand to caress the woman. Also, he should be careful not to press sudden weight on his crotch since it may cause the woman to gag or choke on his cock.
The Side 69 Sex Position
In the side 69 sex position, the couple will be lying on their sides facing their partner’s organ. The only thing that sets this position apart from the other two 69 sex positions is that the man may have a free hand to help him stimulate the woman. He may even insert fingers in the woman’s vagina as he performs cunnilingus.
The Exotic 69 Sex Position
The exotic 69 sex position is doing the 69 sex position while standing up. Though this position is really hot and sexy, it tires the couple easily. The woman will be standing upside-down and the man has to support her. The weight of the woman may strain the man’s back and legs. On the other hand, the woman may easily feel dizzy because of the sudden rush of blood to her head for being upside down for a long time.
10. The Quickie Sex Position. Quickie sex is often underrated. Some couples think that it is impossible to have an orgasm in just five minutes. But with the Quickie Sex position, having an orgasm for both lovers in just five minutes is doable.
This sex position is often done upon waking up or before the one of the couple leaves for work or for an emergency.
To do this position, the man lies on his back with his legs together. The woman then moves down into his erection, but she won’t ride him. Instead, she will lean forward and let the man thrust in a quick motion from below. The man will not be able to penetrate deep, but his penetration would be enough to stimulate the woman’s G-spot.
Since the position is very tiring, men can only do the position for a few minutes. However, many men enjoy this sex position because the angle is perfect for their satisfaction. As for the women, she may have to quickly look for the spot that she really enjoys in order to enjoy the quickie with his man.
Experts say that quickie sex should not be laughed upon. It is a relationship saver especially when the couple is too busy to engage in long sensual sexual intercourse. It serves as a reminder to the couple that sex is still part of their lives even during their busy schedules.
The sex position listed here is only the top sex positions preferred by many couples. It only serves as a guide to partners who wishes to strengthen their sex life by exploring the other sex position. There are dozens other sex position that a couple can explore to satisfy their sexual needs and to express their intimacy with each other.